A few steps forward, a few steps back

We surprised Leah Jin-Ri this morning with her new jumper toy. She didn't quite know what to make of it at first, but then once we played her favorite Korean children's CD she was dancing and jumping around. She figured out that when she jumps, it makes sounds and lights up, and we taught her how to spin the seat around to look at all the different toys around the circle.



She also received a cool new Leapfrog counting musical toy from Grandma & Grandpa this morning, and she really liked it. She really loves music and responds immediately to it by dancing and swaying. We get such a kick out of it.



But Leah was a bit out of sorts today after our first social worker visit. This was the first stranger we've had in the house so far, and it made her quite nervous. Our social worker was great and knew not to focus on her too much, get right in her face, or try to hold her, and we all just went about our business for the 1-hour visit. When we sat down in the family room, Leah sat on John's lap and was very shy and wouldn't smile. We could tell she knew we were talking about her. She sat in John's lap and put her head down on him for comfort and fell asleep right away. It was probably a stress reaction, since it's very abnormal for her to just fall asleep like that without a lot of effort on our part. After a while, she woke up and started coming to life and smiling a little, but she wasn't being herself at all.

After that was over, we played and had fun as usual all day. Here are some more pictures of her playing in the mirror. You should see all the slobber on the mirror at the end of the day!




But later, when we took her out for her daily excursion, she had a major crying fit in the store and in the car on the way home.



This evening, it was difficult to get her to sleep. It's only been a week and she's obviously still grieving her losses and feeling overwhelmed by all the changes in the last week. It'll just take time, understanding and patience.